There’s no use looking back and wondering…
I used to have a reoccurring dream where the LTE would dump me in more and more excruciating ways. All of which would take place in the most public place possible.
My subconscious mind obviously knew something was up as sometimes dreams can come true, because the final straw of our relationship came with him having spent an entire afternoon in the pub getting drunk and flirting with a female friend (and a major source of worry) and then when challenged on it, questioned his feelings for me in front of an entire pub.
Nice.
I had the same dream the other night, apart from this time it was the Boy doing the dumping, not the LTE.
I’m trying not to draw any conclusions with regards to this one. There have always been doubts in my mind about us, especially as, as regular readers will know, that we have broken up roughly every 6 months (and we’ve just passed that milestone again).
I feel like a whiney attention seeking child every time I ask if things are ok. But get a drink inside of me, I have to ask, I have to stick my tongue into the sore tooth and root around looking for something to hurt me.
(Yes i did just compare my relationship to tooth decay – too much of the good stuff can eventually leaves you broken and in pain…)
I know one coincidence doesn’t reality make. Sometimes, coincidences are just that – things that should never happen ever again. But yes, I can admit I am a little scared…
Have you ever had a dream come true – and by this i mean a sleeping dream?
I often used to dream horrible things when i was with C, usually about him dumping me or cheating on me. Once he dreamt that he’d killed me and put me in a box.
Pretty telling that one.
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smidge Reply:
January 11th, 2010 at 4:39 pm
Its horrible isn’t it?
I think our brains freak out during the night revealling all the worries we dont dare voice during the day!
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Weirdly enough, as I read this I was prodding a wobbly part of what remains of a tooth with my tongue (most of it fell out three years ago and I hate dentists.)
I once had a dream in high school that the guy I fancied most saw me, decided he liked me and asked a friend about me,
A week later he asked my friend about me.
It was weird. But the only time a dream came true in that much detail!
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smidge Reply:
January 11th, 2010 at 4:40 pm
Me too, i have a horrible bad tooth that i’ve been putting off dealing with – im petrified of dentists!
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Hmm, Think you’re bundling everything up a bit too soon here. Not knowing the situation the first time or this time (I’m a very new reader, you see. Do forgive me! ), I’d say it’d be more of a case of self-fulfilling prophecy. I know that I’ve unknowingly and without intention ruined a relationship after having a dream of the boy cheating on me. I started getting really insecure and constantly asking him whether everything was ok. He found someone who had the confidence not to be constantly questioning her attractiveness and he went for it. And he told me it was all my own doing. That’s what hurt the most.
Don’t let yourself get in that situation. A dream is just that. A dream. It’s not reality, it’s your mind making up stuff to make reality easier to handle.
xx
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smidge Reply:
January 11th, 2010 at 4:42 pm
I forgive you – and yes you are right, the more you worry, the more you dream etc.
It’s just strange that i’d had this dream so many times with the LTE – despite the fact i wasnt really worried about us breaking up – i also hadnt had it about B before.
:S
P.s Im trying not to worry myself over it – writing certainly helps!
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Nope. And that’s a good thing!
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I sure hope I don’t. My dreams are always so bizarre…!
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I always have dreams where I get back together with my first ever boyfriend…and then panic because I wonder what the hell I’m doing and want my Robbie back.
Well, he isn’t MY Robbie now…. so the panic came true I suppose.
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i have a lot of deja vu and remember dreaming events that are happening. does that make sense?
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